I'm a little slow today. I just switched to Sanka. So...have a heart?

Sunday, July 08, 2007

Dumped.

At approximately 1:10 p.m. on Sunday, I did what I've been waiting to do forever:

I dumped "The Boy." It didn't go very well. But hey. That's life in the big city, right?

Ahhhhhh...

*** UPDATE ***

Oy. Okay. After he ranted after the initial dump, he called me back an hour and a half later. Thereupon he ranted at me that I never gave him a chance (Seven months?) and that he wanted to be friends, and maybe down the line we could try again, and if I ever got lonely I should call him, and that and he hoped I didn't end up a lonely old gay man. (I'm 26. Please.) It was essentially a repeat of everything he was grasping at after the initial "I'm done," only he reiterated that I should have told him the last time we had the "You don't pay enough attention to me" chat, that I wasn't going to change and then he could have thought about it.

So I called him on that, and let him know that yeah, I took away his chance to dump me - if he thought I wasn't interested, he should have acted faster. Too late. Get over it.

I don't feel bad anymore. I did. If he had scooped up his dignity in a little package and not given me "what for" I'd feel bad. But now I don't. I understand he's angry, but don't antagonize me. Yelling at me isn't going to make me change my mind, it's just going to further cement that I did the right thing. It feels super nice.

And in a show of what a big boy he is, he changed his profile song to "She Fuckin' Hates Me" and took me off his top 12. ::eyeroll:: I guess that's one of those things he had to do to for a "close out," but, again, this is why I date guys that are older than me...

Oh well! Off to Target!

10 Comments:

Blogger Jess said...

First of all, are you kidding?! I think it went FABULOUSLY ;) And also, how childish is he... Wow. How many times has he called since yesterday>?

9:48 AM

 
Blogger SuperBee said...

One text message since the last communication. :)

10:54 AM

 
Blogger Rootietoot said...

I don't understand Drama.

12:25 PM

 
Blogger SuperBee said...

RT - Me neither. That's why I cut him out.

12:28 PM

 
Blogger Yvette said...

I'm so sorry, Superbee. However, this didn't look good, from the beginning. A relationship should lift you up, not drag you down.

12:46 PM

 
Blogger SuperBee said...

Yvette - I expected to feel worse; instead it's like a huge weight has been lifted. I can breathe again!

Seriously - I felt bad for about 10 minutes, not sad, just guilty for hurting someone else's feelings. Then I got over it. Then he called me and yelled at me; then I TOTALLY stopped feeling bad. I wanted to like him - he's great on paper. But I didn't want to tear his clothes off, and he was needy and drama-rama-riffic, and I simply don't have time to deal with him. I just "wasn't that into him."

Thank goodness I did the dumping, though. I still have my ego intact. :)

1:23 PM

 
Blogger SuperBee said...

Yvette - I expected to feel worse; instead it's like a huge weight has been lifted. I can breathe again!

Seriously - I felt bad for about 10 minutes, not sad, just guilty for hurting someone else's feelings. Then I got over it. Then he called me and yelled at me; then I TOTALLY stopped feeling bad. I wanted to like him - he's great on paper. But I didn't want to tear his clothes off, and he was needy and drama-rama-riffic, and I simply don't have time to deal with him. I just "wasn't that into him."

Thank goodness I did the dumping, though. I still have my ego intact. :)

1:23 PM

 
Blogger Jess said...

Since when do you care about other people's feelings?!

;-)

6:25 PM

 
Blogger SuperBee said...

I'll stab you, bitch. :)

9:36 PM

 
Anonymous Abbs said...

My darling Superbee...is it any wonder that he was so upset - you ARE THAT fabulous!!!

1:46 PM

 

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